tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7986270693452382001.post2835916899168468388..comments2022-12-02T00:45:05.209-06:00Comments on Dazzling Wings: Unconscious ManipulationTanya T. Warringtonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00838074093892841482noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7986270693452382001.post-91322122102510478142013-04-26T17:27:11.161-05:002013-04-26T17:27:11.161-05:00Anonymous,
You're welcome. Recovery from abus...Anonymous,<br /><br />You're welcome. Recovery from abuse isn't easy but it sure is rewarding. Way to go on seeing yourself more clearly and then learning new, healthier ways!Tanya T. Warringtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00838074093892841482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7986270693452382001.post-78630701175934090302013-04-17T00:19:08.773-05:002013-04-17T00:19:08.773-05:00Thank you for writing this. I am just now becomin...Thank you for writing this. I am just now becoming aware of how I unconsciously manipulate people to get my way. I am not bipolar or anything but have been in abusive relationships where I 'learned' survival skills to get my needs met. I am learning to say those phrases too "I want" "I need" and to ask for help when I need it. Again, Thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7986270693452382001.post-57721299757146196562012-06-06T01:34:21.904-05:002012-06-06T01:34:21.904-05:00When we talk about hypnosis or hypnotherapy, we of...When we talk about hypnosis or hypnotherapy, we often hear the terms subconscious mind or unconscious mind. It's become clear to me that there is some degree of confusion over the meaning of the terms, and the difference between the two. In actual fact, in the context of hypnosis, the two terms refer to precisely the same thing, it's just a matter of which term more appropriately describes the state of being.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.evitalhealth.com/UltraInflamX_Plus_360__Medical_Food_Tropical_Mango.html" rel="nofollow">ultrainflamx plus 360 side effects</a>kaneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04767722783117979542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7986270693452382001.post-67872190035110879622010-06-24T09:26:46.805-05:002010-06-24T09:26:46.805-05:00Hi, I am finding that being in relationship with p...Hi, I am finding that being in relationship with people who are healthier and who ask me sometimes what it is that I want or urging me to just ask directly for what I want.<br /><br />I'm not aware of a book that directly addresses the unconscious manipulation. But here are some books that have helped me:<br /><br />Matthew in the Bible<br /><br />Proverbs in the Bible<br /><br />Codependent No More by Melody Beattie<br /><br />Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. <br /><br />Dance of Intimacy by Lerner<br /> <br />Boundaries by Cloud/Townsend<br /><br />Be Happy without being Perfect by Alice D. Domar, Ph.D.<br /><br />Fight Like a Girl by Lisa Bevere<br /><br />Search for Significance by Robert McGee<br /><br />Safe People by Cloud/Townsend<br /><br />When I Say No, I Feel Guilty by Smith<br /><br />How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids will Talk by Taber & Mazlish<br /><br />The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman<br /><br /><br />I googled and found more that sound helpful: <br /><br />The Nice Girl Syndrome by Beverly Engel<br /><br />The Dance of Connection by Lerner<br /><br />The Courage to be Yourself by Sue Patton Thoele<br /><br />So Long Insecurity by Beth Moore<br /><br />Don't Say Yes When You Want to Say No by Jean Baer<br /><br />Breaking Intimidation by John Bevere<br /><br />Assertiveness Workbook by Randy PatersonTanya T. Warringtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00838074093892841482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7986270693452382001.post-31884178520901351932010-06-15T08:33:34.117-05:002010-06-15T08:33:34.117-05:00Hi, I totally empathise with what you are writing....Hi, I totally empathise with what you are writing.I am coming out of a long hard course of CBT thirty years after experiencing abuse. I am too now becoming acutely aware of my use of unconcious manipulation and would truly love to move away from it. Do you know of any useful texts or books that would help me on this quest? GillAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com